How to get that special guy!!!!

Hi y’all I’m so sorry for not putting up any post, I’ve just been very busy with exams study and school work. In the midst of all this hustle this idea came to my mind. I’ve decided to help all those girls that really don’t know what to do about their crushes. And valentine is by the corner, we need some gifts yo!!!! 

How to get that boy you really like!!!.

Step 1, Choose and Assess the boy in question.

Every girl likes more than one guy; we can’t date them all so we have to choose. When choosing, you have to be sure the guy is proper boyfriend material. Your instinct has to tell you that he is going to like you. Be sure that he is someone you are ready to go all in with, someone that is worth your time. After you have done this, we move on to step 2.

Step 2, study the guy.

Now you’ve got to switch to the FBI mode and be smart. Study the guy like he’s a 4 unit course. Know what he likes, the kind of girl he likes, what food he likes and stuff like that. I’m not asking you to be a stalker, do it in a very smart way. PLEASE and PLEASE do not make it obvious, don’t go to him and say “what kinds of girl do you like?” never ask direct questions. The moment you do that he begins to see you as a stalker. If you want to know the kind of clothes he likes his girl wearing, you could just bring up a fashion magazine while you guys are talking and just jokingly ask him which picture’s he likes, or ask him about some clothes in the magazine. The comments he makes will help you know.  For stuff like that, use your head, be smart girl! You are an undercover agent.

Step 3, be his friend.

Try to be friends with him but be smart about it. Don’t let yourself get zoned!!!!!! If you do you’ve lost your game. Don’t let him know you are crazy about him and don’t talk about many guys with him. If at all you want to tell him about a guy that’s on your case, tell him with style that you don’t like the guy and describe the kind of guy you like. Make sure the descriptions you give fit his. Once in a while, act a little bit flirtatious to tell him that you want more, but don’t overdo it so you don’t look like a slut. When you hang out with him ensure you look so amazing. And be nice to his friends; don’t flirt with any of them. Don’t forget to check up on him. Don’t call him every day ohhhhhhhh!!!!. If his birthday fall within this period, please get him a birthday gift, I don’t mean BOXERS AND SINGLET (be it designers or not) oh, buy something really good.

Step 4, make some changes.

Now you know the guy, what he likes and all that; be ready to make some changes. These changes have to occur in a gradual process so it doesn’t look so obvious that you are changing. I’m not asking you to bleach oh!! Just dress nicer and look nicer. If he doesn’t like too much make up, you could reduce it, after all too much make up isn’t even good. You have to be mentally ready to do this. Not to worry, once he has fallen in love with you, you can take a little break.

Step 5, go with the flow.

At this point you are now a reflection of the girl in his dreams, you have to go with the flow, don’t push it. Good things take time. Now he may want to kiss you or something. Make him want you but don’t have sex with him, because if it doesn’t work out na u don loose oh! When you eventually kiss him, be good at it. He will be all yours and wouldn’t want to leave you. There you go!! You have the boyfriend!! In cases where we girls do the chasing, there is no scenario where the guy officially asks you out, instead you have “The Talk”. This is when you know the guy likes you already. When you are alone with him you just bring up the talk of “what are we doing now?” make sure he’s in a good mood when you ask him and you too should ask him politely too. He’s going to give you all the long story of how he has gotten to fall deeply for you and all that shit, at that point know you’ve hooked him. Go with the flow baby, if you reached this step successfully, then you are a smart girl. Remember not to involve too much drama in all these. Boys don’t like drama.

I wish you all the best girls. It is important to know when to back out oh, some boys will just never fall for you and some boys will just fall for you easily. All guys are not the same. You should realize this at the study stage, but I’ll still wish you GOODLUCK!! 

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